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By night, I write the popular breast cancer humor blog, But Doctor...I Hate Pink. You didn't know cancer could be funny, did you?

By day, I'm the secretary to a high school principal, proof that living with cancer and working an insane job is possible. I'm the mother of two wonderful boys, one who is 24 and one who is 13. I'm married to a tired man who had to do a lot of cooking and cleaning this year.

I was diagnosed with invasive breast cancer August of '09. I had a mastectomy, 6 rounds of chemotherapy, a year of herceptin (I'm still not done), began taking tamoxifen, and am still waiting for my reconstruction surgery. It's been a long year - and then some - so I want to say this: get your mammograms! I waited too long and who knows? I might not have needed 16 months of treatment if I hadn't thought "It can't happen to me" and skipped a few years in a row. (Like 8, but who's counting?)

It can happen to anybody - so take care of yourself!

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way to be well created 11.20.10

Coping with the Holidays


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Many of us have to face the holidays in active cancer treatment and may be tired or having surgical discomfort. I learned a few tricks about getting through these times. 1. Lower expectations. The holidays are about family and friends, not decorations and lights. 2. Enlist friends and family. Determine what you cannot live without and ask for help. I have not been able to cook Thanksgiving for two years in a row, but I have family willing to help. 3. Shop online. Plan ahead and do it all online. Many places will even wrap. 4. Take it easy on yourself. Health is what your goal should be, and one or two holidays out of a lifetime are not important.

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hiker1 1 year, 5 months ago

Having to adjust to not being able to do all those things one used to do is a huge adjustment with acute and chronic illnesses. Asking for help, and accepting it- not so easy either. Your suggestions starting with lowering expectations, are all good.

It struck me as I read your "tricks" that even people without chronic/acute illnesses would do well to follow this.

And I'm always impressed by the strength people find to maintain a job, families, etc. in the midst of treatment that is so physically challenging. Kudos to you and your family!

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